Shed Your Old Skin...

I was thinking, chunk of our time goes in trying to fix old things. I can try as much as I want but in reality I am wasting my energy and time to figure out what went wrong and trying to fix. At the moment in my life I caught myself crying over spilled milk. 

I believe that I should be the first person to forgive and forget anything that might have caused the differences. Most often this is exactly the reason why I end up fixing things. I think about it, I try to rebuild the relationship and sometimes I succeed too but matter of the fact, if the opposite person is not ready to move on and if they still have the grudges then honestly, at some point we'll come back to square one. 

Being the person who I am, it is difficult to not think about others and stop doing things that pleases them but at some point we all need to make peace with the fact that no matter what you do, some relationships require constant justification. Are you not tired of living the life of others? No matter how much you try, you can't make everyone Happy. Through my experience I have learnt one thing, if pleasing others doesn't please Me then I should stop doing it. 

The old skin has to be shed before the new one can come. I personally wrote many Dreams and Goals for this year but I felt this is not too late to add as one of my Goal. We will have to let go of few things to get something better. We might have to let go few relationships, Job, Financial Status, Leadership Position, and Friendships and may more to move on in life. Shedding the old skin is not always bad, change will lead us to higher levels in life with greater success. 

I have read this somewhere, “Letting go doesn't mean that you don't care about someone anymore. It's just realizing that only person you really have control over is yourself”. Past cannot be changed but what we learned from it can change our FUTURE. 

Develop strong wings, it’s time to fly to create new Memories. Shed Your Old Skin

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